There a two ways in which a woman becomes a single mother :
1. They either
choose to have a child in their lives without a romantic partner involved at the time.
anticipated the support of a significant other who had different plans.
In either scenario,
there are challenges and rewards, so let's take a look at the single mother by choice.
The single mother by choice is a woman who desires the opportunity to raise
a child, to be a role model, and to protect a little person. More often than not, single women
by choice are financially and emotionally prepared for the challenges that
children present. These challenges are slightly different than those that the single mothers by
chance face. Choice single moms are going against the flow of many society's cultural norms. With single mothers dating sites, they also have the freedom to look around for partners of their choice.The strong belief that many people around the world share of "two parents are better than
one" puts a stigma on family forms that vary from that perspective. However, the deep
desire to have a child in one's life has some women adopting, expensively artificially
inseminating, and sometimes kidnapping children.
On the other hand, we have the single mother who were perhaps widowed,
divorced, abandoned, raped, or knocked up by a friend or
casual date. Obviously, none of these sound very attractive. The immediate
challenges that come to mind are in finances, social support from
the child's father, time management, and most times educational resources on
how to parent infants and children.
Society leaves single mothers by chance in the lowest rung of economic security; even lower than that of all minority groups in the United States. However in most states like Alabama there are certainly programs to Help for Single Mothers in Alabama which provide special assistance.This country has limited social policies to aid single mothers who are in poverty in comparison to
several other countries who may or may not be industrially advanced. Child care centers are expensive. Housing is expensive. Food prices are ever on the rise and clothes, toys, and safety
equipment for children are not free. In suburban communities, transportation is also a huge challenge for the single mom.
If she is lucky enough to have a car, it needs gas, maintenance, insurance, tabs, and a car
So, in both cases of the single mom by choice or chance, challenges are presented. However,
there are priceless moments that only mothers receive in their daily walk with
their children. Personally, as a single mother by chance, I wouldn't trade one day of having my son. He is my joy and inspiration
to continue pushing toward a better future for us. Options are available for mothers who cannot adjust and adapt to the pressures and responsibilities that single motherhood entails. However if they are choose to work online from home, they should be wary about work at home scams. Loving
families who are unable to bear children of their own, or who want to help children have a
home, exist out there. It's up to the single mom to be honest and know her own limitations for
the sake of her child.